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Saturday, March 13, 2021

Why are Democrat women such wimps?

The flood gates opened and Democrat women in New York are piling on Cuomo in a media firestorm aimed at running another New York governor out of town. He's walking around the mansion in a daze and a blankie. Democrats are about to dump him. 10 years of loyal corruption will go down the drain.

The women try to top one another with their sob stories. As I read their tales, I am supposed to be outraged at him, but I am left wondering, what in tarnation is wrong with her? 

Jessica Bakeman wrote in New York magazine, "Andrew Cuomo’s hands had been on my body — on my arms, my shoulders, the small of my back, my waist — often enough by late 2014 that I didn’t want to go to the holiday party he was hosting for the Albany press corps at the executive mansion.

"I was 25 years old and working as a statehouse reporter for what is now Politico New York. I had been on the Capitol beat for a couple years by then, but I was still among the youngest reporters in the press corps, and one of the few women in the group whose job it was to report on the governor’s every move. Everyone else was going, and some had been covering state government for decades. I thought if I skipped the event, I might miss out on some intangible opportunity to cement myself as a part of that community. I ignored my instincts and went anyway, walking over from the New York State Capitol Building with several colleagues."

At the party he put his arm around her and after a while it dawned on him that maybe she did not want a suitor who was more than twice her age. He said, "I’m sorry. Am I making you uncomfortable? I thought we were going steady."

Her reaction 6-plus years later was, "I stood there in stunned silence, shocked and humiliated. But, of course, that was the point."

But she did nothing.

A few paragraphs later, she wrote, "It’s not that Cuomo spares men in his orbit from his trademark bullying and demeaning behavior. But the way he bullies and demeans women is different. He uses touching and sexual innuendo to stoke fear in us. That is the textbook definition of sexual harassment."

So why did she put up with it? She could have written something years ago. If he is such a monster (and the odds are he is) she should have warned others.

Instead, Bakeman was a wimp who took abuse for a few years, then limped off to Florida. 

Now that the coast is clear, she emerges from the shadows. 

She reminds me of Silda Spitzer. Remember her?



The Los Angeles Times reported 13 years ago, "It was the way she stood there, enduring.

"Silda Wall Spitzer did not say a word as her husband, Gov. Eliot Spitzer, brusquely apologized to his family and the public after he was caught on a wiretap doing business with a high-priced prostitution ring. Her face was drawn. But she took her husband's hand as they left the room.

"This scandal had many salacious details, but it was the image of Silda Wall Spitzer at her man's side that dominated conversations across the country Tuesday.

"That moment of public humiliation stayed with people -- men and women, Democrats and Republicans. At a beauty salon in Brooklyn Heights, at the Mellow Mushroom pizzeria in Midtown Atlanta, at a Denver office building, at a bar in the Seattle-Tacoma International Airport, the same questions came up:

"How could she?

"Why did she?

"Haven't we seen this play one too many times?

"Why do we go through this ritual of public shame and repentance, with the political wife standing mutely before the TV cameras as her husband admits his sexual indiscretion?"

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Silda became the poster girl for Democrat women. He cheated on her with paid hookers, and yet she stood by him. Eventually he resigned as governor of New York. Only after that did she divorce him.

My Republican mother had enough of my father's cheating and divorced him when I was 2. He divorced his 5 kids too. Mom put Donna, my oldest sister, in charge of the rest of us at age 12 so Mom could work and support the family. My mother proved to be a better father than my father was. 

I am so glad Hillary was not my mother. Hillary is a weakling who stood by Clinton through humiliation after humiliation.

Cuomo's wife divorced him years ago, so not every Democrat woman is a doormat. But she's also a Kennedy, and we know that Kennedy women learn early to look the other way.

The effort to bring Cuomo down is not spontaneous. The governor killed 15,000 people in nursing homes thanks to his failed covid 19 policy. Democrats do not want the public to examine that, and so they unleashed this sex pest (as the British call it) squirrel for the public to chase. When he departs his office, we will all feel good and morally superior -- just as we did when Spitzer departed. Smug is a good feeling.

But the question remains, why are Democrat women such wimps?

Why did these staff members and reporters he pestered not blow the whistle on him?

They might have lost a job over this?

Try raising 5 kids on slightly above minimum wage in the 1950s, before equal pay became the law of the land. 

60 comments:

  1. GREAT post, Big D. I’m just grateful and thankful beyond words that my wife stuck with me when the booze started winning. It was a dance that turned into a barroom brawl eventually. When I asked why she didn’t vamoose, her answer was shattering in its simplicity: “I kept praying for you, and I knew that God would some day pull you out.” The women you mention don’t seem to have any sort of relationship with God, but your Mom obviously did. God works for good in all things, I can testify to that. I just KNOW that the LibCommie party would become a reasonable alternative once again if they let the Lord in again.

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    1. And just so the FBI doesn’t show up on my doorstep next hour, I never physically hurt my wife or cheated on her. I was a real asshole at times, though.

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    2. "I was a real asshole at times,"

      As I have told my wife on numerous occasions, she is destined for many extras in Heaven for putting up with me for almost 50 years.

      Rest assured, you're not the only asshole who severely tested the faith of a good woman.

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    3. I've tested the faith of more than one. Not proud of it.

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    4. A lot of marriages are hurting--and I also admit that I was far form the ideal husband. But, could there be a large difference between cultures that believe the 7th Commandment truly represents the voice of God, and one that believes adultery/cheating/whatever is shameful only if you're caught?

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    5. Excellent, ZR!

      Cuomo: "I thought we were going steady." !!!!!!

      Silda just hung around for the divorce money (Spitzer family real estate multi-millionaires). Period. Ugh.

      Do not defend or mythologize Kerry Kennedy. She was "seeing" a high school classmate of mine (the nicest guy in the entire school, by the way) "on the side" when that blew up in July 2003.

      It's a tough road. For everyone. And its amazing how almost all of us somehow at one time or another figure out how to make things even more difficult.

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    6. The FBI couldn't care less if your a wife beater, rapist, murder, etc. However, if your white and have connections with Jan. 6, you may be on their radar.

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  2. The Demos, consisting of many crime families great and small, is a big crime family, complete with an omerta.

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  3. Democrat women are among the worst...Harris as Exhibit A.

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  4. "He's walking around the mansion in a daze and a blankie."

    This line has made my day.

    "I had been on the Capitol beat for a couple years by then, but I was still among the youngest reporters in the press corps, and one of the few women in the group whose job it was to report on the governor’s every move."

    She obviously didn't report on his EVERY move, at least at the time.

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    1. She is woman, hear her roar.
      Helen Reddy would be SO disappointed.

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  5. He also had his pants unzipped in the photo--no one thought it was unusual enough to comment on. At least he had his blankee...

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  6. I recall Mark "Appalachian Trail" Sanford's wife kicking him out when his infidelity came to the surface.

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  7. Wimps? no not at all

    Democratic women are not wimps... they are opportunists. All women fundamentally are opportunists

    Just look to Frau Merkle to understand the archetype. And the ease at which all of Europe has been held in orbit on that - dare I say it - Axis.

    Mz Spitzer is a good example, she dumped Eliot not while he had a scrap of power, only after he lost all his power.

    Think of poor poor 20 something Jessica Bakeman. A 20 something getting a prime spot covering a single governor of the great state of New York. I mean it's not like her age and youthful beauty could AT ALL have factored into her hiring and success at Reporting... right?

    When women of the 70s said "I want to have it all" they (the ardent feminists) did NOT want equality. Oh no they really wanted ALL the power. They wanted to retain the ability to gain power in influence with youthful attractiveness and STILL maintain that power after the beauty fades, just look to the Pelosi and the Merkel for how that plays out.

    Now those 70s little girls are in places of power throughout the world.

    It is odd that we "say" we want to have powerful independent women who can stand on their own. But yet when a NY governor is accused we suddenly go back to the 50s and say "bad manly man picking on poor defenseless womenkind"

    Not that the opportunists will complain they are happily enjoying having it all.

    I mean it's not like sacrificing a few male governors will set in motion anything.

    It's not like the US Presidency will be decided in the next few months by how often the President sees cute teenage girls and is in close proximity to them.

    Everything about the President and who is in close contact is controlled... imagine that the Republic hangs on a few Press conference and if the 80 something President can keep his hands to himself.

    Imagine

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  9. They're wimps because they're entitled. They've been told they are completely equal to men (when they aren't in some areas like average physical strength, height, speed, etc.--while being superior in other areas like flexibility, longevity, etc.). They've been given privileged status when it comes to murdering unborn babies ("My body, my choice!") and crying sexual harassment ("We must believe every female accuser").

    Women have assumed male gender roles they're not suited for because of this as well. Add it all together and you have a toxic stew of entitled delusional feminism in which everyone involved demands a trophy.

    It's a mess.

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    1. Some additional thoughts on this that popped up:

      I raised my daughter not to take any guff--from anyone. She doesn't. Upbringing has a lot to do with it but also the nature of a woman. They're probably less assertive than men on average in part because of one thing--testosterone. For whatever reason mine has always been a little more hard-headed than most girls (in a good way). She stands by her beliefs no matter what the people around her think. It's nice to see.

      Anyone can be afraid to speak out when their job is on the line, man or woman. I know of cases where an all-male cockpit crew flew into a mountain because they were bullied by their owner to go when it wasn't safe.

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    2. Jake- not unusual aviation sadly. I quit a Chief Pilot position because the boss insisted on flying unsafe equipment.

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    3. Yep. I can concur with both of you on this one. I've had to make the decision to call in fatigued knowing it would be the end of my job when they could find a way to move me out the door... It's a gut-wrenching thing to have to do.

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    4. BTW he wrecked this particular aircraft.
      I ended up with his Job.
      Started going over maintainance, and logs
      It was a mess.

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    5. "Good recovery, Mav."

      :P

      Glad it turned out okay.

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    6. Did Sue ever say, "Harry, keep the change"?

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    7. Yeah, I've had scheduling and management pressure me before on fatigue calls. They got away with it when I was young and scared but I've decided I can always get another job, but losing my license--or my life--is not worth the risk.

      It's hard sometimes though.

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  10. Cuomo was known to retaliate against those who he even perceived did him wrong, therefore getting women to come forward and say anything is very difficult. I think there's some piling on happening at the moment but I will say this, I never once so much as touched a woman who worked with or for me while in the Navy or as a civilian. Ever.

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    1. Not only that but the fear that nobody will do anything is also real.

      I had to file a whistleblower report on a company I worked for that had numerous, obvious, documented violations of safety regulations. That scared the hell out of me. Even though I was in the right the fear of dealing with government agencies, lawyers, etc. was really nerve-wracking.

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    2. Yeah, I was "social distancing" around women years before the Wu Flu came along. They're dangerous in the workplace and they have #MeToo Privilege.

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    3. yep, I was in my 40s on an Army base when a very cute, callipygous, young blonde came by to do some IT stuff in my office. I knew her casually so I figured could banter with her from across the room some distance. I asked if she needed any help moving some computer boxes around and she said no, so I said something along the lines "brains over brawn" and she froze. She gave me the strangest look and I knew I was in trouble for something; so I figured I might as well find out and I asked her "what's wrong"? She said, "did you just ask me if I was wearing a bra?" Geez, I must have turned about six shades of red...I could actually feel the blood rush to my face. I said, "no, no, no, I would never ask something like that" and explained my comment...she had never heard the expression so I guess she focused on the "bra" part of "brawn", much to my chagrin.

      I never bantered with her again and went out of my way to avoid her as much as possible until I posted out the following year. However, for the rest of my career, I always wondered if the incident would come up some time during a background investigation for my TS clearance...still wondering

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    4. Smart move. I look over my shoulder now, too. All it takes is one bogus accusation to ruin your life. Seen it happen.

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  11. An anomaly about Spitzer was that he patronized an "escort agency" rather than an out-and-out brothel. Escort businesses deny that they are prostitution operations, since the fees paid are for companionship time whether or not sex takes place. Thus, Spitzer's escort was not arrested for prostitution and the business owner was arrested for tax evasion only.

    Spitzer paid $4,000 a night for his liaisons. For that kind of money, he could have flown round-trip to Thailand and signed up the entire cast of an orgy starring himself.

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  12. I don't think it's just New York women, I think it's American women. Not all of them of course, but many of them. For example when Tiger Woods behavior became public knowledge I'm guessing if he was married to an American woman she wouldn't have divorced him, but because his wife was not from America I knew there was a good chance she would.

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    1. I agree. Surber can only view life thru partisanship not culture. So he seldom sees the elephant in the room.

      If it wasn't for the blue dress with its evidence we'd never have heard of Lewinsky. Even then it took Matt Drudge to report the story.

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    2. Divorce is evil and un-Christian, Art. I don't praise anyone for that.

      "When thou maketh a vow, defer not to pay it," is just as much a command as anything else.

      "For better or for worse...until death do us part," includes infidelity.

      Americans change spouses like socks. It' grotesque. But then again we also probably abort more babies than the rest of the world combined so I'm not surprised.

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    3. Jesus specifically included an exception for marital unfaithfulness because the cheating spouse had already broken the convenant. And you are wrong about America leading the world in abortions. Look at China and Russia.

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  13. The common point for all of them was POWER and access to it. Only when faced with the possibility she might have to pay more than she wanted to for that access did she get upset. Until then she went along with what he was doing.

    It's also why they don't report it right away. If they did they would lose ALL access to anyone and their career in politics or media (birm) would be over.

    So we come down to it: "We're not arguing about what you are. We're just haggling over the price."

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    1. Be careful with that nickname containing "Jake" as Ed will start calling you Jeffrey...or something.

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  14. The media silence on the 15,000 dead is a sign of their support for their murderers.
    What is the total number of Covid murders of old folks by Democrat governors?
    50,000?
    More?

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  15. I'd like all the women who did the Kamala Harris with Cuomo to come forward and admit they traded sex for unfair advantage. If there are victims, there are also manipulators.

    Everybody knew Cuomo's game just as they know how Harris leapfrogged qualified men AND women for money and power.

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  16. Agree it is about power and access to power. Dr. Jill must be pissed they aren’t traveling all over on Air Force One.

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    1. Jo(k)e's handlers are probably telling the good Dorktor that Air Force One is in the shop! Soon, Honey, soon!!!

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  17. A lot of women like Jessica fear retaliation from a powerful politician like Cuomo.

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  18. cover up. deflection from newsom and nitwhtmer, two who are far more important to the d'rats than cumo.

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  19. You know very well that this is the result of efforts to take the accountability away from Cuomo over the calculated COVID deaths of over 16000 elderly people in nursing homes.

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  20. Democrat men are much worse. They're actually disturbing.

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  21. Nowadays when a leftie broad needs to grow a pair she becomes a trans man. If all seven women had transformed would Andy Numnuts be accused of GENDER harassment? Sexual harassment? Harassing males? The confusion is pathological. Somebody help me out here. Please.

    Why are so many left wing white women who hate white men transitioning to their bete noire?

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  22. It's like that creepy arse woman from years ago who said she would suck the brass off Bill Clinton's tiny balls and splinter penis just to keep his political policies in place.

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  23. Hillary a weakling? Hardly. More a conniver and pragmatist. Leave him: a life in a small law firm. Stay with him: opportunities for payoffs and graft through government jobs and elective office.

    It’s really that simple.

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  24. I come from s world where is you cheat on your spouse, it's fn over. Trust is gone forever. No trust, no marriage.

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  25. I'll add to what the others have been saying here:
    Frankly, if a woman was harassed by Cuomo before it was politically safe to complain, she would at the least face other sorts of harassment or possibly even end up on the road traffic accident list.
    It is all a bit convenient in the end.

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